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817051 Travis : Yeah, well that's another situation, pronunciation
817052 Travis : which counts*
817053 Travis : it's not a who
817056 Travis : You're a quick learner
817057 Travis : Hard to believe you're 22
817058 Travis : Sadly, Bob has fallen asleep again
817059 Travis : He just trails off......................zzzz..z.z..zzzzzz..zzzzz....z.z.z.z.zz
817060 Travis : Must be the bourbon stash he hides from his better half
817061 bob : i havent had a drink in 30 yrs
817062 bob : i find it to be a waste of money
817063 Travis : oh, so sorry Bob
817064 amlo : when you isolate yourself from the world you get a lot of time to learn
817065 Travis : beer yes, but not a couple of drinks of whiskey every now and again
817066 Travis : True, amlo, but why are you doing it?
817067 bob : and my wife doesnt drive so i have to drive and the drink drive laws here are strick
817068 Travis : You mention it all the time, and you know it's damaging. What will it take to turn over a new leaf?
817069 Travis : You have a long life ahead of you
817070 amlo : i dont know better
817071 amlo : i really dont
817072 Travis : They're strict here too.....recently went from .08 to .05
817073 bob : it doesnt seem to stop drink driving
817074 amlo : everytime i try to get outside i fail
817075 Travis : You do admit, though, that you'd like to be less isolated though, right?
817077 bob : only punishes the moderate middle class....as usual
817078 Travis : You just don't know how to change things?
817081 amlo : its like starting from zero
817082 bob : in what way are you isolated amlo?
817083 Travis : You mentioned you had a gf a few years back......why not make reasonable moves to find another, without a time limit or undue stress?
817084 amlo : no person to speak with all day
817085 Travis : Finding a new job will put you in proximity to others, that's a given
817086 amlo : yes im working on that
817087 Travis : Don't you ever go outside of the house? Come into simple contact with others?
817089 bob : go and hang out in the library
817090 Travis : That's a concern, right?
817091 Travis : Good idea, Bob
817092 Travis : You're not religious, right?
817093 amlo : not really
817094 bob : what is your job amlo?
817095 Travis : Lots of places to meet people that are free, you don't have to go crazy all at once, just get in the habit of feeling more comfortable around people first
817096 amlo : being unemployed counts as a job?
817097 bob : just dont be a stalker
817098 Travis : I'm not even saying have a goal of a gf in the near future, babysteps
817099 Travis : If that's the case, Chuy is Employee of the Month for several years
817100 Travis : the park, go for a walk on the street, go shopping (you don't have to buy or spend much)
817101 bob : checkout operator gets to say hello to each customer
817102 Travis : museums, library, just get the hell out of the house
817103 Travis : it'll make you feel more and more isolated over time
817104 Travis : Tell me you don't have guns man lol
817105 amlo : and how do i get rid out the feeling of being a creep for approaching others?
817106 bob : become a volunteer somewhere
817107 Travis : That's an irrational idea from the start, amlo
817108 Travis : That would mean everyone is a creep
817109 Travis : Just don't do creepy things when you have routine conversations or interactions
817110 Travis : Each of us has many interactions with strangers a day.....they don't mean anything.....
817111 amlo : maybe you are right
817112 amlo : i ll go out just for the sake of being out
817113 Travis : I AM RIGHT
817114 bob : join a club
817115 Travis : exactly....and go at your own pace, make it natural
817116 bob : buy an anorak abd train spot
817117 Travis : Don't "force yourself" to make an awkward conversation just to do it, it may come out poorly....just don't overthink stuff
817118 Travis : I mean go buy a soda.....the guy will say, is that it? You say yes....he'll tell you how much, pay the person and say thanks...something as trivial as that and build on it
817119 amlo : i was actually making friends in my last job
817120 Travis : Yes, you told me, but you didn't like your boss and it interfered with everything
817121 Travis : You live with your parents?
817123 Travis : And you get along with them?
817125 Travis : You have siblings?
817126 amlo : nope, only child
817127 Travis : That's ok
817128 Travis : You feel normal talking about routine things with your parents?
817129 Travis : It's not a burden, a stressful situation?
817130 amlo : yeah im not autistic or something lol xd
817131 amlo : i know how to do small talks
817132 Travis : OK, but they're familiar people
817133 amlo : read facial expressions, have sense of humor
817134 Travis : small talk leads to more normal conversation, not always but can
817135 Travis : ok so you're not on the "spectrum" got it haha
817136 Travis : I think you're way too hard on yourself
817137 Travis : You need to give yourself a break once in a while and realize that you're not discovering penicillin, you're talking small talk
817138 Travis : Relieve yourself of pressure from such a normal act
817139 Travis : But staying locked in your house all day, month after month can't be healthy
817140 Travis : You've been successful before, remember what you did earlier and repeat
817141 amlo : this will change soon
817142 amlo : i have gained work experience
817143 amlo : im not a newbie now
817144 Travis : But stop telling people you're this or that....these are for your mind only.....by telling people you're a creep or other negative things, sets a bad tone
817145 Travis : for you because it reinforces an irrational thought, and they'll pick up on it too and act accordingly
817146 Travis : You're your own worst enemy, knock it off
817148 Travis : That will be $85
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