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2330844 el mono real 1 : It wont be long before you are teaching him to drive a car
2330845 Jaenette : Ël también es un buen hermano
2330846 Jaenette : Yo no sé manejar carro
2330847 el mono real 1 : You should learn
2330848 Jaenette : Seguro que él aprenderá antes que yo
2330849 Jaenette : No creo pueda aprender rápido, no me gusta
2330850 el mono real 1 : pideles a tus padres
2330851 Jaenette : No, no tenemos carro
2330852 Jaenette : No necesitamos tener carro por ahora
2330854 Jaenette : Más adelante papá comprará un carro, eso dijo
2330855 el mono real 1 : Cars are very expensive
2330856 Jaenette : No es tan caro
2330857 el mono real 1 : I would get rid of my car if I didn't need it
2330858 Jaenette : Unos 12,000 dólares no es mucho
2330859 el mono real 1 : Your family must be wealthy
2330860 Jaenette : No, somos clase media
2330861 Jaenette : No somos ricos
2330862 el mono real 1 : I have spent 1000 dollars on my car this month
2330863 el mono real 1 : Just from servicing it
2330864 Jaenette : Te compraste uno nuevo o de segunda mano?
2330865 el mono real 1 : I bought it years ago, when it was nearly new
2330866 Jaenette : De verdad? Estaba tan mal tu carro, lo chocaste o qué?
2330867 el mono real 1 : It's very expensive to maintain a car, Little girl
2330868 Jaenette : De segunda mano
2330869 Jaenette : Sí, mi papá dice que tener carro es como tener que mantener a otra familia
2330870 el mono real 1 : Tyres, Engine service, Transmission service, Registration, Petrol
2330871 Jaenette : Gasolina, revisión técnica, etc
2330872 el mono real 1 : My next car will be electric
2330873 Jaenette : Es mejor tomar taxi
2330874 Jaenette : Esos carros están baratos ahora, llegaron carros así al Puerto de Chancay
2330875 Jaenette : Carros chinos
2330876 el mono real 1 : In Australia our public transport systems are not great. It's almost necessary to own a car
2330877 Jaenette : Están bonitos sus modelos
2330878 el mono real 1 : BYD seem to be good, cheap cars
2330879 Jaenette : Mi pueblo es pequeño
2330880 el mono real 1 : I will probably buy a BYD
2330881 Jaenette : Si lo necesitas tienes que comprar
2330882 el mono real 1 : I will keep my car for a few more years
2330883 Jaenette : Está bien
2330884 el mono real 1 : I should go now, Little girl
2330885 el mono real 1 : Let's chat again soon
2330887 Jaenette : Chau, yo también ya me voy
2330888 el mono real 1 : Un beso
2330889 Jaenette : Feliz Navidad , por si no te veo
2330890 Jaenette : Chau, Mono, disfruta de las fiestas de fin de año
2330891 Codi : Hi is anyone online?
2330892 el mono real 1 : This chatroom is dead
2330894 Tony47Granada : Hi, how are you?
2330895 Jaenette : ‹@Tony47Granada› ‹@Polishgirl› Feliz Navidad ! Aunque no los conozca, que el Niño Jesús los bendiga, el saludo para todos los que vienen al chat y con quines , a veces, converso
2330896 Jaenette : Quienes*
2330897 Jaenette : JD; Travis, Flower, Patricia, Mono, Dog, Jack, tengan una Feliz Navidad y que la pasen bien
2330898 el mono real 1 : Time to talk about the REAL gender equality
2330899 el mono real 1 : Today's sermon: Why marriage is unfair for men
2330900 el mono real 1 : If you think about the different mating strategies, male and female, they are completely different. Everybody knows there are lots of sperm, but just one egg, so the female strategy is to choose the very best mate that she can to reproduce with. She is only looking for one person to mate with.
2330901 el mono real 1 : The male strategy is different, of course. There are lots of sperm, and his best chance of reproducing is to use that sperm to impregnate as many women as possible (men are often unfairly shamed for this part of their sexuality too - we will come back to that).
2330902 el mono real 1 : Women are looking for 1 partner, men are looking for multiple partners.
2330903 el mono real 1 : Now, when we look at marriage, which gender does this favour the most? Yes, you guessed it! It's women.
2330904 el mono real 1 : Women's mating strategy is completely fulfilled when they get married. They have chosen the highest quality man that they can get, and "locked him in" so that he is morally, and even legally committed to stay with her and only with her. It's exactly what her instinct was telling her that she wanted.
2330905 el mono real 1 : On the other hand, however, the man's instinct is the complete opposite. The man's instinct is telling him that he should mate with many different partners to maximise his chances of reproducing, and yet here he is... walking down the aisle ready to condemn himself to a lifetime of monogamy.
2330906 el mono real 1 : Marriage is set up to benefit women. It's why they are always the ones who want to get married... "when is he going to propose?" "Is this relationship going anywhere?" "when are we going to have children?"
2330907 el mono real 1 : So why would men willingly put themselves through this? Why would they agree to get married?
2330908 el mono real 1 : Good question, Mono. I'm glad you asked.
2330909 el mono real 1 : It's because they believe that by getting married they will enjoy a lifetime of sex-on-tap. They are fooled into thinking that sex will be readily available to them, because now they are married sex is "expected".
2330910 Jdawg78 : Hola!
2330911 el mono real 1 : But unfortunately, the opposite is true. When women feel comfortable in a relationship, the sex actually dries up. Ask any married man if his sex increased or decreased after getting married.
2330912 el mono real 1 : You already know what the answer is.
2330913 el mono real 1 : So men sign up for marriage, totally going against their instincts and end up having less sex. They are now in a legal contract where if they break the contract, they will need to give half of their resources to the woman who duped him.
2330914 el mono real 1 : Marriage perfectly suits women. Marriage is unfair for men.
2330915 el mono real 1 : Now let's back to the side remark about how men are shamed for desiring multiple partners. Well, to put it simply... it is completely unfair.
2330916 el mono real 1 : There is nothing inherently wrong about desiring multiple partners. It is societal expectations and marriage, that has decided that the norm is for 1 person to have 1 partner, but who says that this is the correct model? Why shouldn't it be correct that people can have multiple partners?
2330917 el mono real 1 : Men are shamed for their masculinity and their instinctual desires, for which they don't really have any control over (their desires, not their actions) "men only want one thing" "you can't keep it in your pants" "men are afraid to commit"
2330918 el mono real 1 : It's another example of women shaming men to exert control and influence over them.
2330919 el mono real 1 : Imagine a man shaming a woman by saying "women only want one thing (marriage)", "you wont get it out of your pants", "women are too committed to their partners". It's ridiculous, right? You can't shame a woman for following her instincts, and yet the reverse happens all of the time.
2330920 el mono real 1 : Stinky dogs all around the world are being controlled and manipulated, and they don't even realise it.
2330921 Gatodelicioso : Sigh. Mono... im going to try to be insightful and helpful without being insulting. This is clearly a very important and emotional issue for you since it continues to come up in a spanish chat room. You are forgetting a very important aspect of all your reasoning. Aside from the semantics of relationships, legalities etc. What is the purpose of sex? Other than for mens enjoyment. Its to reproduce. The laws and relationships and commitment are often for the benefit of the children.
2330922 Gatodelicioso : My friend told me, the moment he had his first child he realized his life was no longer about just him anymore. That it was to protect and raise his child.
2330923 Gatodelicioso : If you areyoung thats understandable what you are saying, you want to have sex and fun etc and dont wwnt to commit. Thats totally fine. If you are honest about that with any partner you are with than thats ethical non monogamy. It doesnt have to be about shamd or blame. There are many women that want the same thing. I would suggest the datinb app Bumble for you, there are choices in the profile for looking for ethical non monogamy.
2330924 Gatodelicioso : you dont have to be angry about how you percieve things to be, its not so black and white. Noone needs to settle down, marry andhave children. Many people shouldnt especially if they will be bad fathers. Butthere is a clear advantage to commitment and a legal bond as far as the stability of a family to raise a child. For example...
2330925 Gatodelicioso : there is a test called ACE (adverse childhood experience) the higher children score on this the more likely they have problems later in life. You can take the test free online if youre curious. Im not sure what happened, is happening or you worry will happen to yourself or someone you know. But to clarify, when i said men are shit, it was in response to you saying you would never date single mothers then insulting them.
2330926 Gatodelicioso : also you can read that the sexual drive of both men and women after having children naturally lowers biologically so they can focus on raising the kids. Do what you like sir, just be honest about what that is and dont lie, then youve done your part. Then its fairly up to whoever wants to be with you still after they know that. Fair?
2330927 Gatodelicioso : best of luck mono, you can enjoy james bonding the rest of your life if you like. Just dont be angry with women for not wanting that same thing as you. There are many who do. Find them and enjoy yourselves.
2330928 Gatodelicioso : I hope that helps.
2330929 el mono real 1 : Stinky dog, I didn't ask for your "help", nor do I want it. If I remember correctly (which I do), you said that this topic does not interest you and that you would stay out of it.
2330930 el mono real 1 : And the whole "men are shit" thing... just own what you said, admit that it was a sexist, unfair generalization and apologise to all men (including yourself) for saying it.
2330931 el mono real 1 : Yes, marriage helps children, but that doesn't discount the fact that marriage is better suited to women as it appeals to their mating instincts and condemns men to be at odds with their instincts.
2330932 el mono real 1 : "you dont have to be angry about how you percieve things to be", I'm not the one who writes things like "I will f**k your mouth you piece of s***". The one with anger issues here, is clearly you, Stinky dog.
2330933 el mono real 1 : "also you can read that the sexual drive of both men and women after having children naturally lowers biologically so they can focus on raising the kids"
2330935 Ey22 : Mathew is that u?
2330936 el mono real 1 : Where would I read this, exactly? We all know it's women who are the gatekeepers of sex, so the women decide that they want less sex after marriage and the men have to put up with it. No man ever says "I want less sex now"
2330937 el mono real 1 : At least when you lie, Stinky dog, try and make it believable.
2330938 el mono real 1 : Chuycito?
2330939 Ey22 : Wtf lol
2330940 Ey22 : Im not chuy
2330941 Ey22 : If he was even real
2330942 el mono real 1 : Chuy is very real
2330943 el mono real 1 : Who are you?
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